The pleasures that come with being a slave is unmatched for many submissive males. The release of endorphines and hormones such as dopamine, adrenaline and oxytocin during and before servitude bring unrivalled pleasure. However there are times with the sub experiences what is known as a sub drop.
What is a sub drop?
A sub drop can be experienced in many ways, from feeling sad, depressed, anxious or regretful. This effect can occur after an intense femdom session, such as after a bdsm session, or after experiencing a Fingasm – often experienced after sending a large financial domination payment or luxury gift buying.
When the blissful endorphins wear off it can sometimes leave a slave experiencing a wide variety of negative emotions and physical symptoms.
How to prevent sub drop
Before undergoing a blissful serving experience, consider what your current mood is. Are you content, happy and ready for pleasure? Or are you already on the verge of feeling blue. Are you using the euphoric experience of servitude to alleviate an already existing negative stressful emotion? Think twice and consider that these feelings may feel much worse if you experience a sub drop. Being prepared in advance of a sub drop is always wise.
Sub drop aftercare
Sadly, not all dominants offer any advice relating to sub drop aftercare. The important thing to remember is that it is your own personal responsibility to take care of yourself, especially after a sub drop. Your Mistress or Goddess cannot do that for you and it is not Her responsibility to offer you this personal care. However, today we shall discuss a few pointers to lead you in the right direction.
Plan your servitude time, ideally before bed. Sleeping directly after a huge orgasmic serving experience is one of the best things you can do for your body and your mind. If this can’t be done, prepare an aftercare kit, such as compiling things that give you pleasure, maybe a favourite movie, a hot bath, a video game, your favourite meal. Most importantly, do not blame yourself for experiening a sub drop.
Remember that although a sub drop is not nice to experience, it is completely normal. Once you have found your rightful owner – the powerful relationship between a sub and a Domme is worth holding onto.